My choice of love

Honey,

if love comes in colors,

I choose blue,

if love comes in flowers,

I’ll choose rose,if love comes in songs,

I’ll think of choosing blues,

But if love should come in human beings,

I’ll definitely not think twice beforeI’ll choice you!

because.....You are my choice

Heart
I once had a heart
and it was true but
now it's gone from me to you
so take care of it
as I have done because
now you have two and I have none.

Memorable Dating Ideas That Women Love!

Here is a very powerful way to become unforgettable in the eyes of the women you are dating.
What if you could set up a scavenger hunt before or during a date so that you were enjoying this adventure together? This is what this technique will allow you to experience. You can enjoy these adventures together while also creating a stronger connection between the two of you.

Note : This is better for a 2nd date meeting and works best with women have these qualities : intelligent, adventurous, spontaneous, passionate, etc.

Cliff Note Version : arrange to meet with a date at a certain time and location. Text message her before the date and tell her to meet you at a new location nearby. At this nearby location she can find some clues as to where to find you. She will also be able to search for clues as to where the date will be.

Most of us have cell phones that can send and receive text messages. You can use these ideas to create an air of intrigue and enjoy adventures together that your date will remember long into the future... You and the dates you plan will become memorable!

1. Let us say for example that you meet a girl at a store and things are going well between you. You are both laughing and enjoying spending time talking and getting to know one another so you take her to another nearby place to continue the conversation. This is important because it will show you how much she likes and trusts you. You are leading and she is following like in a dance. You can call this new place your special spot or romantic corner or something like this. Allow her to feel really comfortable and safe in this place with you :)

2. For the 2nd date/meeting you tell her your plans are a special surprise. Make sure that you get along well, enjoy spending time together and share a compatible sense of humor. Also, make sure she is in the mood for a pleasantly surprising adventure with you that night.

3. You could plan to meet at a coffee shop at 8:00 before going to the surprise location.

4. Text her or call her cell phone at 7:45 and tell her you have a wonderful surprise for her and that she should meet you at your special spot instead. This is a spot in the place where you took her to during your first meeting.

5. Ask her what she liked most about that special spot and to remember how she felt and ask about how much she likes surprises. This creates powerful memories of attraction and connection and in Hypnosis we call these things anchors or triggers. These anchors occur naturally so you may as well use them on purpose.

6. When she goes to that special spot in the book store ( as in our example ) she will find a hidden book that you left there for her. I will use Dan Brown' s book, "The Davinci Code" as an example, because along with "Angels & Demons" it helped to inspire me.

She can search within this book for a hidden clue about where and what the surprise date will be. She will most likely be very intrigued and very curious! This is not an average date and
she is feeling special because you are treating her in a special way.

7. She finds "The Davinci Code" book with a brochure or a letter from you with the
address, times and simple directions to meet at an art gallery or museum, etc.
During your first date or meeting you found out about what you both like and enjoy and so you had enough information to plan something special.

8. Meet her at the surprise location and enjoy the art, the wine, cheese, crackers, etc.
Most of all you can enjoy spending time together. I have found that this scanger hunt before the date makes it so much more unique and interesting and is so much better than if you simply make plans to meet at an art gallery at a certain time.

The idea is to be unpredictable, fun, classy and romantic :)

Everybody Wants True Love!

What's a fairytale without a prince charming, a princess in distress and true love? It'll probably be just another old story that will somehow fade into obscurity as time goes by. But, the element of true love is what made fairy tales into all-time blockbusters. Yes, everybody wants it so bad, even those princesses who did nothing but wait for their courageous knight in shining armour atop his mighty steed.

Even today, everybody wants a taste of true love no matter how elusive it is. Some are lucky to have stumbled upon it, while a lot have simply given up in the unending quest for it. So, they find someone that they could somehow tolerate, put up with them so they don't have to feel the loneliness of being single ever again, and then marry just because it's what everyone expects them to do.

Quite a lot of people have gone this way, but only a few have escaped from the challenges and veer from the all-too-often divorce. But what is it really? Is it a cruel myth, a fleeting insanity, or is it something real and tangible, like crow's feet and potbellies? How can anybody know if the right person is already in front of him/her? While it is easier to be dreamy-eyed and romantic, it is important to understand and remember that to find love isn't as simple as going out there and putting a tag on someone who seems to be THE one.

Often, it's more of a case of waiting for THE one, instead of finding him/her in an instant. The harsh realities of everyday life render a vast majority of people to be pretty cynical, and it can be rather mindboggling when one somehow ends up with a wonderful person. Some take it as some sort of pure luck, but time and again it's the concerted effort from two people who wants to make the relationship last.

It is likewise essential to have a clear picture of one's own self-worth: every person must be capable of self-love, for how can anybody else love you if you can't even love yourself in the first place? When meeting someone and the relationship somehow clicks, the important thing isn't how many hobbies or interests you share with the person.

It's the similar deep-seated core values that makes you both yearn for the same things from life. The initial fluttery sensation and feeling of heightened anticipation will always be there when meeting someone new and exciting. Although, this stage rarely lasts long-a lot of people get disenchanted upon returning to their senses only to discover that the seemingly perfect partner is just as flawed as all the others.

But, this doesn't make loving the person an impossibility. What makes a relationship work is not finding the person with a hundred good points that can make everything wonderful. The "happy ever afters" only exist in fairytales, not in real life. A relationship is a process, and the couple must grow together with each other, able to weather any storm or the big changes in life.

True love calls for hard work and give and take from each person to last.

If You Want to Be Happy, You Must Learn How to Love

Love isn't love unless they know it. Love isn't love unless they feel it. Use your power of Love. (Words from a song I wrote.)

Love is the single most important ingredient necessary to create a successful family and a happy life.

Unfortunately, some of us don't know what love is or how to express it. Mostly, we aren't aware of its power and how much our loved ones need our love.

If you don't ever tell them "I love you" how do they know they are loved?" If they can't feel love from you, how will they ever know? Wouldn't it be horrible for your children to grow up thinking you didn't love them, when you did.

But a caution, just saying "I love you" isn't enough.

We all need to learn how to love, so our loved ones know for sure they are loved. Most of us just assume our loved ones know we love them, but assuming doesn't mean a thing.

If showing love is uncomfortable for you because you never received love from the ones who should have given it to you, you better learn how. I was one of those people who received no love as a child. When I had children I realized I had better learn or my kids would end up with the same hang-ups I had.

Showing love is simply a gentle touch, a kindness, a kiss, a hug, a compliment, an encouragement, a thoughtful act and telling them often that you love them and meaning it by word and deed. Try it, it gets easier the more you do it.

If we truly knew how to love our loved ones, we would avoid broken marriages and damaged children. We would be able to keep our families together, in love.

Love has the greatest power for good. If we love our mates, children, and friends we will be surrounded by love ourselves, as it comes back to us.

There is another kind of love that we lack; we need to learn to love ourselves. If we do we will avoid depression and negative thinking.

If we have love and faith in God when we are going through our trials we will learn love and compassion for others.

As the scriptures say "Thou shalt love the Lord they God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy strength, and with all thy mind; and thy neighbor as thyself. ( Luke 10:27)

Love is the essence of life, without it we are but a sad, empty vessel. When we love God, ourselves and others, we have the power to lift, help and encourage others.

This essence of life has allowed me to have a lasting marriage of 51 years, three righteous, grown children and nine happy grandchildren. Families filled with love are the happiest.

I'm thankful I have learned this essence of life and know that love isn't something you receive but something you give and then you know what love truly is!

Use your power of love!

Is this love? Be Careful With Your Vanity

You probably haven’t thought about this possibility, but the truth is that you may be wanted by many men or women, without being loved by them.
If you are attractive, intelligent, you have a great personality, money, beauty, etc., you may be desired by many people that belong to the opposite sex, but this doesn’t mean that they love you. This means that they want to posses you, without caring about the way you feel, your plans, ideals or preferences.
You will be able to verify if they really love you or not by examining their actions and their behavior.
Be very careful if you are very attractive, for one reason or another…
How can you verify if they are playing with you and they only want to fulfill their selfish desires, using you like a trophy that they exhibit to their environment, or using your intelligence and good disposition in order to make you work for them without being paid?
How can you be sure that you are not being used?
Pay attention to the way they behave with you.
If they make you suffer, without caring about the way you feel, but only about their desires, their plans and their ambitions, you’ll be easily able to understand that they don’t love you.
They simply want you, for other reasons. Otherwise, they would never make you suffer in order to oblige you to follow their plans. They are already using you if they are making you suffer for any reason.
Be careful if you are too wanted by too many, and never be vain, because your position is very delicate. Vanity is pure stupidity, because if you are beautiful or very intelligent, this doesn’t mean that you are perfect as a human being or that your mental health is safe. On the contrary: you are the ideal victim for the wild anti-conscience, your primitive wild conscience that wants to destroy your human side through craziness and control your behavior, provoking schizophrenia, psychosis or neurosis.
Be very serious and carefully examine everyone that cares about you.
They only want your honey, like flies. They don’t care about your desires, your personality, your feelings, nothing…
They want to imprison you in a cage and be your owners, because you are very nice.
You have to learn many things about the human psyche and human behavior if you want to be safe.
The scientific method of dream interpretation will not only show you everything you must learn, but will also transform you into a wise and self-confident person.
The dynamic method you have the privilege to have access to today is the result of a very long research that took 19 years to be completed, so that you could learn everything immediately, without doubts or any other delay.
I delayed as much as necessary, until I had all the answers, and this is why only now I present you my perfect method of dream translation, which will show you immediately and clearly how to exactly translate the meaning of your dreams, and this way receive the guidance of the wise unconscious mind that produces them.
All your dreams have a protective character, exactly because you inherited the absurd anti-conscience, your wild conscience, in the biggest part of your brain.
The person who will really love you will care first of all about making you happy!
Pay attention to all the details and examine everything very carefully before being a victim of your own vanity. Never believe that someone loves you, only because they felt attracted by your characteristics, your intelligence or your social position.

Relationship Building Tips For Internet Dating

Internet Dating is often a wonderful way to meet someone if you have been out of the dating scene for awhile. It's also a great way to meet someone if you are just starting out dating. It gives a person a chance to reach out to people without having to commit to an actual in person date. The best part about this is that it doesn't discriminate about age, gender, race, physical condition, visual attractiveness etc., because all the Internet Dating sites allow for all these multiple categories. All you need do is fill in the appropriate detail and the search will only search for the parameters entered.

Of course, every Internet Dating site has its own special characteristics that separate them from the rest. The final selection process is totally up to you.

• Before you sign up for a particular Internet Dating site be sure to visit a few personal forum areas on the Internet to chat with like minded individuals. Or, check out some of the social websites to get a feel for what others are saying too. This is not to move you into doing the same things others are doing, it is to give you a greater understanding of what challenges other people are having. If you think your particular situation is unique, you will soon find out that nothing could be further from the truth.

• Most people that have been reluctant to use Internet Dating as a means to come out of their self-induced shell are operating out of fear. Don't do this...it will only hurt you in the long run.

• We are seeing more divorce than every before, and there are also a greater number of those divorces which have children involved. Therefore, one of the fears is that no-one will want to date someone with children. This is another misconception. The truth is there are categories in most Internet Dating sites specially setup for the single parent in mind.

• If you are not sure if you want a relationship, but still feel the need for companionship, Internet Dating is a wonderful way to achieve your goal. If you are crystal clear in your personal profile that you are only looking for friendship through dating, and not a long term commitment you will attract like thinking individuals.

• We are all human and humans have certain needs. The sooner you realize that it's OK to date to fulfill some of those needs the happier you will be. Remember, there are a lot of people out there going through the same process you are currently going through. The key is that you understand it is simply something you are going through and will eventually come out the other side a happier more fulfilled person.

Life is meant to be enjoyed, so step up to the challenges of having some fear and let that fear give you strength to push forward. However, don't make the mistake of thinking lust is a replacement for love. Lust is the driving force from ego, while love is the driving force from an open heart.

When you are ready (and only you will know you are) you will eventually move into the next step of Internet Dating - to actually seeking a relationship. In the meantime, be gentle with yourself and enjoy Internet Dating and the benefits it offers you for the satisfaction of human pleasures.

Love Meter Indicates True Love

The love meter reads that you two destined lovers. Do you believe it? Do you believe that true love exists in real life? Everybody wants what is in the short love poems and love movies. Read on to find out if true love is real or only happens in the fairy tales.
Some people settle, because they do not believe that there is such a thing as true love. They look for love all of their lives and they never seem to find it, so they think it must not be real. So they find someone who in infatuated with them. And although they do not love the person in return, they will marry them anyway. They test their relationship on the love meter and it shows average results, but they think average is good. They figure it is as good as it will ever get. After all, at least the person loves them. However, over time they may find they despise the person more and more.
What do you think is the definition of unconditional love? Love is when two people are passionately head over heels for each other. True unconditional love is when someone loves you so much they would die for you. There are so many short love poems and love movies out there in the world, that true love has to be real. There would not be so many of these love stories throughout history, if it didn't exist. And the love meter would not have even been made if it didn't exist.
Love Meter Truths
Believe true love is real. If you do not believe in unconditional love, then it may never happen for you. You have to stay positive and believe you will find it one day. Yes, you cannot see true love, but it is real. There are a lot of things that you cannot see, but you know it is real. Those old love sayings are true, you really do just "know" when you find the one." Believe it when the love meter says you are a match made in heaven.
Keep looking for the one. Do not give up and settle. You are worth it. Life is too short, to not try to find someone that you cannot live without. Give it time and be patient. You have just not found him or her yet. Do not give up hope. Keep entering your lover's name in the love meter until it bursts the meter off the charts.
There really is no such thing as soul mates. There has to be more than one person out there in the whole world that is meant for you. Therefore, your chances of finding true love has just shot up. Keep your eyes open for that special someone. You never know where you may bump into them. Try entering that person's name that you just met in the love meter. Love happens and you never know when, it could happen to you tomorrow at the store.
Keep true love strong. You have to work at having a loving relationship. Just like anything that is of value, it usually requires work. Now you shouldn't have to work too hard, because you should already be madly in love with each other. However, making that love last through the test of time will take some work. Stay encouraged that your relationship will last forever. You are destined lovers, make that love meter be right.
True love happens, it is not just in the love movies. Have faith that you will find it one day. And never settle with anybody, you deserve the best. Keep looking for the perfect person for you. No one is perfect, but someone out there will seem perfect in your eyes. Love with out holding anything back. Then when the love meter reads you are a match made in heaven, you will "know" it is telling the truth.

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