Monday, August 23, 2010

How to Test a Man's Love For You!

Sometimes you feel that being in love is not enough. You know that you love him and he says that he does too. But you really aren't sure if he is really in love with you or not, so you decide to test him, but how? Here are some of the things that are good enough to test his love for you.

Check his eyes
What is it that you see when you look into his eyes? His eyes give you a glimpse of what is there in his soul and every time that he looks at you do you find his face and his eyes lighting up. If his eyes light up on seeing you he has passed the test of love.

Does he act possessive
Ask one of your office colleagues or one of your friends to act in a slightly flirtatious manner with you in front of your man. See how he reacts. If he accepts the flirting as harmless but still acts a little possessive and jealous then he definitely has passed your love test.

Is he introducing you to his family and friends
Ask him about his friends and family and see how he reacts. Tell him that you would definitely like to meet them someday. See his reaction and gauge. If he is positive about doing so then he has passed.

Is he willing to talk about your future together
Talk about some of your friends getting married or talk of a couple who has grown old together, and see how he reacts to that. If he is willing to talk about your future together with him then he is definitely in love with you.

is he ready to talk about his childhood
Try and talk to him about his childhood and see if he is willing to open up to you. If he willingly talks about it then he loves you enough to let you into his world. If he doesn't then his love for you isn't that advanced yet. With time he will let you into his inner world. You just have to work hard for it.

Is he willing to make a sacrifice for you
Asking a man to make a sacrifice for you is one of the surest ways to test his love for you. Ask him for a small sacrifice like not watching a ball game just to spend time with you. If he is willing to do that to make you happy then he is in love with you.

Can he pass the loyalty test
Ask one of your close friends to hit on him. If he doesn't hit back on her and comes and tells you about it then he has passed the test of love

Tuesday, August 3, 2010

Explaining Love in Words

Is it possible to love someone and deliberately lie to them? Love is...bearing all things. That means putting up with each other's faults. No one is perfect. Love is...believing all things. It doesn't mean we have doubt about someone. We should be able to take what someone says at face value.
It is trust. Love is...hopeful in all things. It's knowing that everything will work out for the best.
Love is...enduring. That means it puts up with the little things that drive us crazy. Love is...never failing.
Love is real when it can stand up to all these things. It looks for the best in others and brings these things out.
True love can stand the test of time. Being with someone for a long period of time allows you to go through different emotions and periods with that person. If your heart has the strength to weather through these different experiences with your lover, then both you and the relationship will grow stronger.
Love doesn't mean that your lover has the responsibility to keep you happy and vice versa.
The only person who has the responsibility to make you happy is yourself. While you and your lover can make each other "happier", you shouldn't be solely dependent on each other for happiness.
The couples who end up being happy together are made up of individuals who were happy to begin with. Keeping yourself happy is a hard enough responsibility, don't make it harder for yourself by letting another person's happiness be your responsibility too.
Love is sublime. Love gives power. Love gives determination. In love, many lovers do what they could never dream of.
Empires have been sacrificed for love. Battles have been fought for love. Love has ruled mankind since ages. Those who experience love are truly lucky. Real love is supportive. Love yourself, love your dream, love your mission, love your life, and surely enough, a wonderful person will show up and love you even more.
Love is best seen as devotion and action, not an emotion. Love is not exclusively based on how we feel.
Certainly our emotions are involved, but they cannot be our only criteria for love. True devotion will always lead to action - true love.
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. ... Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
Love is friendship set on fire." - unknown "Love is an ideal thing, marriage a real thing." - Goethe
"To be in love is merely to be in a state of perceptual anesthesia." - H.L. Mencken Love stretches your heart and makes you big inside." - Margaret Walker
"Love has no awareness of merit or demerit; it has no scale... Love loves; this is its nature." - Howard Thurman
"Love is like war: Easy to begin but hard to end." - Anonymous "Love consists in this, that two solitudes protect and touch and greet each other." - Rainer Maria Rilke
"Where love is, no room is too small." - Talmud
"Loves makes your soul crawl out from its hiding place." - Zora Neale Hurston "Love is the irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired." - Mark Twain
First and foremost focus on yourself. Your dreams, your goals, your truth. Somebody who really loves you will love you even more if you are being your true self. Someone who cannot love you when you follow your excitement is not worth being loved by you! If your husband is angry with you because you take time to achieve your goals, then he is not supportive. If your wife is jealous because you have success and she doesn’t, then that is her problem. Don’t lose yourself, and your love will last. Focus on the reason why YOU are here on earth, make your mission the first priority in your life, and you will be loved for WHO you are.
This is real love. Real love is supportive. Love yourself, love your dream, love your mission, love your life, and surely enough, a wonderful person will show up and love you even more. What you are able to give to yourself, you will get back thousandfold from the outside world. If you are already in the energy of love, by simply loving yourselfArticle Submission, then you will attract love from outside into your life. Make love last by loving yourself first. Love Love Love...